help, Way does my baby daddy look at me like like he is crazy. When i brought up how I felt- she got extremely mad at me. its kinda of a concept from frank Sinatra its the revenge is self success. Going crazy and would do anything. girlfriends baby daddy come over for holidays and spend the day with us as a family is ok? Maybe your girlfriend should consider allowing him sometime to heal before leaving him responsible for a child in his obviously unstable state. The only reason she has any contact with him is if involves her daughter. If he has no money, job, or car, how will he find you? Stripper / Sugar Baby. My girlfriends baby daddy will not quit trying to get her back By Rapidrelex, 6 years ago on Family 3,071 I've been with my girlfriend (who has a four year old)for two years. Kind of different situation but same theme. So yeah we're dating and everything's a dream.and then this happens the father of the kid comes back ..now . follow my twitter: https://twitter.com/paralleltechy. Those words were always in the back of my mind as I dated. Since he's popped back in, I have had no access to my son whatsoever. Thats a given. I'm reading these posts and honestly.. My ex who I have a 2 month old son with, has decided to go back to her ex from 2 years ago. He may be a lousy father, and you beg and beg him to come and see your child. Usually violence is the answer contrary to popular belief, but it'll get me nowhere in this situation, and I'm stumped. The baby deserves a baby role model Peace. The baby daddy is doing himself. My best friend hates my boyfriend and I dont know what My husband hates my mom. Cookie Notice You should have kicked his **** when he started to sniff around her butt again. He calmed down for a little after that but once again he's back to the same old tricks. Them three will be taking a hike together in couple of days. Because your life and future is too important. visitation and support for the baby. Our baby is now 3 years old. Since day one, the ex has not left her alone. Tiffany. I asked him up to mine instead, but only if my boyfriend could join. It was a very slow process and took a really long time for us both to fully commit into a relationship. I was with my new man so i called the cops to let them deal with it. I did that to my baby daddy. The DNA test came back positive [M28/F27/F20]. There are a number of reasons people get back together with cheaters. My son ex girlfriend is pregnant and wants to put the unborn child for adoption is that possible or my son still have right even that were not sure is his baby! I feel so insecure. That was the reaction last night when social media maven Supa Cent shared, via her Instagram page, what she did for not only Phil her baby daddy, but his girlfriend as well. Because any man who doesnt think what you have to offer isnt enough, isnt worthy of you anyway. I know shell never leave me for him but its just him i dont trust because he does still want and tries to get her back but he says "hes happy that im with her making her happy" which i know is a lie but still. also he gets mad when i try to invite myself which i think is total ****. . If he still refuses, you might need to enlist the help of family members in your cause. Do not have anything do with girls who have kids and exes. It is easier to get your baby father back if there isn't another woman in his life. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. https . then I told him By the way smug mutha fuccccca I am having a birthday party for your son. It's a red flag that I would file away as a . Please see our. And then quickly smacks my bum 5 more times. I just hope one day when she gets older she can forgive me and listen when I tell her that its okay to not do what the other woman will. However remember you can't make anyone change if she is going back to him she still has feelings for him and you might have to cut her off to save yourself the heartache of being used by her to mess with this guys emotions. I'm like aw man not this..but I don't say anything about it .but she does. either he respected the relationship i was in or he got to stepping never to see his kid again because me and my baby don't need all that. LISTEN to the advice. I'm just afraid that eventually she's going to hang out with her ex more and more and realize that she " needs " him in her life for her son. BabyDaddyDrama 9 years ago lol thats a good one but no life is too short to waste it on fighting for a girl i learned that if she has to decide who she wants to be with then let her be with him because she never loved you at all if she has to choose #im nobodys second choice reply #14 joel 8 years ago Now I'm a 24 year old black male, and I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months, known her for 6 1/2, and the father of her 13 month old son is the craziest cat I've ever met. Was it my boyfriend or some man whose name I didnt even know? Florida law provides for an injunction in cases of . now everything was I mean spot on .we had it down right.she told me never to hurt her and that's she asked of me .me the same & that every problem we had we'd fix together and not fall out.. Her conception might not have been ideal, but her birth is most certainly a blessing. First off the reason they aren't together. He hit on her a couple of weeks and she told him shes in a happy relationship and how it makes her uncomfortable that he made that comment. Get your life in order, girl. My Ex Girlfriend wants a BABY ( Fortnite ) emilee is daddy 238K subscribers Subscribe 8.4K 191K views 10 months ago #ad #fortnite #gamergirl "How Many Likes Can We Get? I have an 8 year old daughter. OKAY MY BABY-DADDY HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE ALWAYS TXTN ME AN Will my baby daddy ever come back to me and his daughter?? Her and I are both respectable adults and he is just a loser that gets satisfaction out of making my girlfriend's life hell because she didn't want to be with him. But even if I put him in the hospital, it wont phase him, so I know physical violence will get me nowhere. One option would be to get the help of his parents or siblings, if you know them. It might help to lower the stress of the situation if you take the couch and he can stay in the bedroom with your girlfriend. People don't leave jobs they leave managers. How do you deal with someone who has NOTHING? Women get with these men and get pregnant and want other men to be real fathers never thinking of all the drama we end up having to deal with. Currently have been dating this girl 7months. By subscribing, you agree to share your email address with EBONY to receive our weekly emails, events, and other updates. Child support is ordinarily paid to the parent that has the majority of the parenting time with a child. The Coli - The Best Hip Hop, Rap, Sports Forum and Message Board. Guys that get involved with women that have children needs to accept that if the father wants to be an active parent, the new guy should butt out. Holidays might suck. I'm not about fighting with her daughters father because I know it would set a bad example and possibly cause resentment but I've come very close to busting his teeth in . Ive know her and her family for about 10 years so I knew a little about her past before we started dating. Our commitment to showcasing the best and brightest as well as highlighting disparities in Black life has been, and will always be, cornerstone to EBONY. He keeps telling her that their child deserves a family, her family (her mom and dad) instead of some guy raising her. She has a 4 year old son. If he is using their baby to emotional blackmail your girlfriend then he isn't a good father. I love my dad but I've made a lot better choices in my life and am more like my mother and step father which is a far better alternative. i absolutely love this girl and the feeling is mutual. If he didn't step up now then he was nothing then. at the end of the day, they do have a child together that most of us forget about while we worry about our own feeling and wants, that we forget the child is watching and learning. Petite teen girl tight bald pussy nude. Take a look. IM OVER IT ALL!!!!!! I was assured I would have his help and support. I use these times to try to bond with my baby daddy, because he left me for someone else. My baby daddy just broke up with me because he wants to see other girl, what should I do? I (31f) was blackmailed tonight over my husband's (32m) Press J to jump to the feed. Naturally- this upset me. I had brought the situation up if she was scared of asking me what she had asked me .she said she was because she didn't wanna loose me and she didn't know how'd I take it.but I had told her I wouldn't leave her for any reason like that ..then she said he was causing her stress because hes always messing with her brain saying **** like you weren't suppose to move on & he left his other baby momma and he got kicked out of their and now he's homeless but wants to get back with her ( to me it sounds like a pile of ****) ..so the next day she seems sad when I see her at her home at night ..she's distant all day thoughts texts..so when I went to see her I knew something was up..( now I wish I hadn't asked ) I asked what's up what's wrong why are you so sad .. She told me she was super stressed and that her minds a mess and all she can think about is her babies happiness and she doesn't like seeing him cry when that **** leaves . Im not breaking up with my bf or gf, its not his fault my bd wants to fight him, my bd is just an abusive AH who wants to control everything I do and everyone I see. My Mom died December 5th, 2012. The girl has to put her foot down and stop letting her "ex" run the show. So I have this boyfriend who is a baby daddy. Happiest child in the world, very pretty and intelligent and is a wee singer. Since we used condoms during our little rendezvous, I naturally assumed that positive pregnancy test I was staring at was the result of an unprotected tryst with my beau after we returned. It used to just be for scheduling purposes- but now she talks to him often. Your landlord sounds like a douche and your baby daddy, why does he want to fight your bf? But I'm looking at what boundaries I should put out there. SHE needed to have a better judgment call on the man as to whether you know he is either worthless or he will step up. Hey please read my comment from this feed it right below yours its called Carlos . Discussion in 'The Locker Room' started by BrothaZay, Apr 24, 2017. I Love you and hope the other women who may read this post appreciate the step dads and men who step in to take the role and responsibility like these men are. You dump her, and move on. Wait for him to cross that line first and make sure you have witnesses who are on your side otherwise it is your word against his. They are your children. Yesterday he wanted to drop off something and i told him i would be gone and would call him today.Well i got home early and of course he showed up banging on the door like he the police. You must log in or register to reply here. Just move on, she is using you. The father wants to have complete control over his daughter's life. *SMACK* "20, sorry . He's following his dream and not caring about what she are the other baby mama thinks abut it and that's what have her chasing him when he's in town. Thank you to anyone that can help answer my questions lol. The stress is literally killing me, Im just so done with every thing and everyone In my life right now. im in the exact same situation this loser doesnt participate and tells my girl his son needs a daddy They broke up because he's an abusive, no job, no cell phone, no apartment havin, no car drivin, weed smokin stereotype. Just rasie the baby as your own and move on she shouldn't even want her child around him Just act like he doesn't exist until he gets it together. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. If you have to deal with him put the pressure on and hustle him. Kick if you fall to the ground. What a shit show. Resentment is natural particularly if he was the one dumped and he hasn't moved on or has a grudge against your girlfriend his ex based on their history. Well, if he now suddenly wants to be part of his daughter's life, I'm sure he won't mind your gf lawyering up and going for child support he owes. My girlfriends CRAZY BABY DADDY (HELP!!!!!). and its hard for us women especially to take a boy away from his father but once hes hurting our kid and not helping its time to change things. Need help with your relationship? I'm guessing their relationship won't last very long, especially since he's 28 & she's 38, amongst other negatives they have going for them. Sorry, but it sounds more like you have a personal beef with him, rather than looking out for baby and your girlfriend. This situation is crazy. Roll into a ball to protect yourself if this doesn't work out. its just that my girlfriend dad was never there for her he ran out on them and she doesnt want that for the baby but idk how to tell her because i try but she just thinks that its me being jealous and saying i dont trust her to do it. It suggests that something entirely different will happen in real life and your relationships with your friends, colleagues or family will strengthen. Not his wife. My girlfriend has been trying to get a divorce and has g read more Isaac, Esq. I know this is hard to hear however until he accepts that she is done he will continue this behavior she needs to cut contact for a few months and suggest that he see a therapist for the issues he is having. and our The moment you got with this chick, you signed up to be in drama world. There is nothing wrong with you and I believe you care about your girlfriend, but the big question here is to you. So if you can't get along or respect each other then take the higher road out of respect for the kid and walk away from any verbal or physical confrontations. I'm with her everyday and night and laugh at all his texts throughout the night as she deletes them and ignores him. 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